The Remix Years
Mixing Board
R · E · M · I · X  —  Where your focus goes

Five tracks. Five moments. One life, remixed.

Set how much of yourself each track gets, from 0 to 20 — two years ago, today, and out to five years from now.

The board adds the five areas together to indicate a total intensity during each time period.

There is no right answer. Some people will want to keep overall intensity just as high, but with a different mix; others might want more free time in their next phase and look for a declining total intensity.

Watch out for totals that drift too high and might not be realistic, or too low and might feel too thin.

Drag a point to move it. Let go to lock it. ↑↓ nudge · REMIX pick a track
Total intensity (0–100)
Type exact numbers for every track and moment. Click a letter at the end of a line to solo that track.

Harmonies

one activity, several needs

There is a free lunch in Remix, and we call it a Harmony. A Harmony lets a single activity meet several needs at once: yoga with a friend (R+M), walking meetings (E+M), an impact project you share with your spouse (R+I), paid work that also has real impact (E+I), or a business with a good friend that does good in the world (R+E+I) — join as many tracks as the activity truly serves. Each one takes its points off the total in the moments where it applies, once for every extra track it joins, and never more than the smallest of those tracks.

What is my X-Factor?

what did you always mean to get to?

The thing you kept your eye on is still there — a craft, a faith, a place, a passion. Name it, say why it matters, and describe what it would look like to finally pursue it for no reason other than that you love it.

In your future self’s shoes

what you did, and the clear mark it worked

Picture yourself one year and three years from now, with the moves made. For each moment, two things: what you did to drive the change, and the clear mark that it worked — something you could point to. Walked my son to school two or three days every week. Joined a second public board. The chips show which tracks move from today.

Height is intensity

0 means the track gets none of you; 20 means it gets everything you have. Most full lives run each track somewhere between 4 and 14 — a 20 on one track leaves little for the others.

The total is the tell

Add the five tracks and most people land between 30 and 60. Above 45 is heavy; past 55, something is going to give. The green band is a life that is full without being frantic.

Harmonies support your Remix

Where one activity feeds two tracks, you get the intensity without paying for it twice. Finding more of them is often the whole game.